First things first, single women are always the first to complain about doing for a man, not needing a man and so forth.
Ladies, we’ve got to get over this stage of complete independence if in fact we don’t want to be mateless forever. Even if your preference isn’t men, whoever you make the decision to love, learn to be a little more humble sometimes.
I see more and more ladies on my Facebook page talking about how they don’t need a man and how they are their mate’s girlfriend or wife, not his maid.
Doing for your man does NOT make you a maid. It makes you a good girlfriend or wife. We all know men need a little help from time to time in the home department, so why not go ahead and help him? There are men who CAN cook, but would rather have your home cooking.
Because it takes them back to home. It reminds them (if it’s good enough!) of Mom and what she did for him as a child. Now, if your man is unlucky enough to have a woman who doesn’t know how to cook, then I suggest you pick up a cook book and LEARN.
Being “submissive” to your man is NOT a bad thing. Don’t you know what you don’t or won’t do at home someone else will gladly pick up YOUR slack? Don’t be so prideful that you won’t take care of your man’s needs. ‘Cause when he steps out on you, you’ll be the first one crying asking what went wrong.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being proud of our womanhood, but give it a rest sometime. You come off as arrogant and unapproachable by the general masses. Or either just plain MEAN.
You may think you don’t need a man, which to survive, you really don’t. But I am hard pressed to agree with any of you who think you’ll be completely happy living your life alone. Love your man, do for your man and stop talking that “Ms. Independent” bullshit that the likes of Beyonce have instilled in your minds.
Ding ding ding! Is she single?
Clearly not…and I bet you she’s probably on her knees when Jay needs it…