Public Service Announcement for men and women, boys and girls, mujeres y hombres:
Don’t tell a woman what you think she wants to hear just to get her in the sack. Surprisingly if you’re up front with her, sometimes she’ll even agree to the terms of the “friends with benefits”. However, where you all mess up is blowing her ear up with I only want to be with you’s and I’m tired of playing the game, I wanna settle down. Save that for the birds and say what you REALLY mean. I had an experience like that not too long ago where he tried and tried and tried and I kept avoiding him because my gut said so. Well, of course one day I was like, you know what? YOLO (I hate that term by the way…) Well, some things happened and didn’t happen and of course as my suspicions were correct, he was only after my body. He actually came out and said it. Now up until that point, he was all about settling down and fnding someone and whatever…
*Shrugs* I might’ve even agreed to the terms of the booty call had he been truthful.
Ladies: it’s ok for you to explore sexually like your male counterparts if that’s really what you want to do. Just be safe about it. I’ve never understood why it is ok for a man to sleep with however many women he wants and yet never be called a nasty name. However, a woman sleeps with a tenth of the number of people a man does and she’s automatically a whore. The double standard blows my mind completely.